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Toke also addressed men directly on her podcast, commenting on expectations in relationships. “Let me now address you guys: For men, you’re spending money, you’re doing work, we’re the ones receiving. You guys have to do chasing and spending. You know how we have work, boyfriend,” she said. She clarified that when women ch+at, it is often not due to inability, but rather a reflection of unmet needs. “A woman ch+ating is not because she can’t, it’s because she probably has what you lack the strength,” Makinwa concluded. Her remarks have sparked discussions online about gender, power dynamics, and perceptions of infidelity in modern relationships.

#Repost @instablog9ja Dating: At 41, cheating isn’t a dealbreaker for me — Toke Makinwa explains why she believes cheating is easier for women than men Media personality Toke Makinwa stirred debate on her latest podcast episode, addressing the double standards surrounding infidelity. She spoke candidly about her views on ch+ating, emphasizing that it is not a deal-breaker for her, but comes with its complexities. “I keep saying this thing, when I say people think that I’m encouraging ch+ating. Ch+ating is not a deal-breaker for me, but it comes with a catch-22, right?” Makinwa said. She added that societal narratives often unfairly portray ch+ating as predominantly a male issue. “As I grow older, I realize it’s not just men that can ch+at. Why are we always making this men’s deal special by making it seem as if it’s only these men? Do you know how easy it is for a woman to ch+at? It’s even easier for us than for men,” she noted.

The President noted that state and community policing would become operational once the National Assembly completes the required legislative processes. He also explained that delays in acquiring military hardware, due to cost and availability, have affected public perception of security efforts. Nigeria has reportedly ordered four att@ck helicopters from the United States and is engaging Turkey for additional support. Tinubu emphasized that the government remained resolute despite guerrilla tactics by b@ndits and insurgents, stating that restoring peace across the country is a top priority. On the recent abd¥ction and release of schoolchildren in Niger and Kebbi states, he urged continued vigilance from communities and stakeholders. Meanwhile, security challenges persist. SaharaReporters reported that suspected b@ndits att@cked Adanla community in Igbaja Ward 2, Ifelodun LGA of Kwara State on Friday evening, abd¥cting seven residents and injuring several others. The source described how the armed men stormed homes, f+red sporadically, and carted away victims, leaving the community in grief and panic just a day after Christmas.

Tinubu: ‘As a Prayerful and Religious Nation, We Will Overcome Insecurity’. President Bola Tinubu has assured Nigerians that ongoing reforms in the country’s security architecture will soon yield results capable of restoring public confidence. The President made the remarks on Friday while receiving a delegation of the Christian Association of Nigeria (CAN), led by Archbishop Daniel Okoh, at his Lagos residence, according to presidential spokesperson Bayo Onanuga. Tinubu reaffirmed his administration’s commitment to security sector reforms, including plans to establish state and community policing to respond effectively to emerging threats nationwide. “The mood of the nation is peaceful, although our ungoverned spaces are so large. The challenge is real, but we will surmount it,” he said, urging religious leaders to support government initiatives through vigilance, cooperation, and prayers.

Jelili Adesiyan, former Minister of Police, has described Deji Adeleke as a major force in Osun State politics, highlighting his significant influence even during his brother’s tenure in government. In a recent interview, Adesiyan said, “You know it yourself he’s the governor even when his brother was in government I served under him. I knew the influence he wielded on his senior brother.” He further noted Adeleke’s business acumen, saying, “You know Deji is a businessman and a capitalist to the core. He has to protect his interests. But today his interest is more than people of Osun State.” On Adeleke’s political stature, Adesiyan added, “Who’s Adeleke? Can that one become a governor? He knows I’m saying this to you and when he hears it he’ll say that man again. He’s the one in charge.” Adesiyan’s comments underscore Adeleke’s dual role as both a businessman and a key political player, reinforcing his reputation as a central figure in the state.

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“Don’t Compare Your Wealth to Others” — Reality TV star Kiddwaya Urges Peace of Mind Over Jealousy on Timeline 🧘🏽‍♂️💰 #LifeAdvice #OnlineConversations #PeaceOfMind #SocialMediaWisdom

Ghana Intensifies Crackdown on Cybercr+me: 141 Suspects Allegedly Nigerians Arrested in Early-Morning Raids.

When the host compared Amala’s colour to dark chocolate, asking if she eats that, Lilian explained that although “I don’t eat chocolate, I’m not a fan of extremely dark ones either”, stressing that her preference is largely influenced by how a meal looks. Her remarks have since sparked mixed reactions, with some agreeing that appearance influences appetite, while others defended Amala as one of Nigeria’s most loved traditional meals despite its colour.