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What are your favorite smells Such that they are associated with something very happy, joyful, bright. It could be your mother's favorite perfume, and strawberry gum from childhood, and grandma's pies... I'll start) Of course, it is the smell of sea salt & sun on the body, when you lie naked and in love on each other, happy and carefree. It is also the smell of a train that carries you to unforgettable adventures. The smell of the coming spring in the St. Petersburg air, a little marine, with a taste of thaw and change after a long winter... The smell of freshly cut grass and sunny bliss. The smell of freedom - this is what the transition from childhood to adolescence and the first feeling of being an adult smells like. The smell of a loved one - this is what sexual attraction smells like...

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Scientists have named the most popular fears of men in sex At least once in your life, these thoughts have definitely flashed through your mind before or after sex. Unplanned pregnancy of a woman 83 percent of men admitted that more than anything in the world they are afraid of one day finding out about their unexpected fatherhood... Even modern methods of contraception do not help to get rid of this fear - during sexual intercourse, many men think about the strength of the condom or the effectiveness of hormonal pills. Lack of erection Top 1 reason: "What if it doesn't get up?" Most often, this question arises in adulthood - after all, erectile dysfunction appears with age, but nowadays problems are also observed in young people. It's not only about diseases, alcoholism or sleep disorders. Stress is a common cause. Experiences due to sexual intercourse itself or for other reasons cause the release of cortisol, which directly affects your testosterone. Therefore, dear ones, to get rid of fear, try to analyze and work it out in detail in your head, explaining to yourself the reason for its occurrence. Discuss your experiences and worries with your woman. Sometimes even this is enough to forget about fears and enjoy the process. Premature ejaculation Usually ejaculation occurs somewhere between the fifth and seventh minutes of sexual intercourse. Early termination of sex is not an uncommon story, especially for sexual intercourse after a long period of abstinence. As in the case of erection, premature ejaculation is often a consequence of sexual anxiety. Discuss this with your significant other, think about something boring when orgasm approaches, stop and start again, add more time to foreplay. The woman will not reach orgasm Also a popular fear, tied to male self-esteem: the girl did not orgasm - it means the man is weak in bed. However, a survey of over 2,000 women showed that only 6% reach orgasm every time, while 46% do so most of the time. The rest of those surveyed experienced orgasm at best periodically, while 9% never experienced it during sex with a man. For some, due to physiological reasons, choosing a good position is enough to achieve orgasm, while others need additional stimulation with hands, tongue or a sex toy. Dear ones, be sure to discuss your sex, try new sexual practices and ask for feedback from your beloved woman.

Tragedy in the family: husband watches porn Dear ones, did you know that women who find out that their husband watches porn experience the most intense drama in their lives. And it really is! ... accidentally stumbled upon a couple of adult films on her husband's laptop, unexpectedly walked into the room, and he didn't have time to roll up the screen, or accidentally saw a porn magazine in the car - and... a scandal erupted. She suddenly realizes that he is no longer interested in her as a woman, that she is nothing to him at all - unsexy & unwanted, that maybe he has another or, oh God, others, that he never loved her at all... She cries alone, she loses sleep, she withdraws into herself, she becomes suspicious and nervous... And when her nerves give out, she starts a showdown with him and makes him choose: either her or photos of beauties... The frightened and uncomprehending husband, of course, chooses his wife)) But after a while, she again accidentally... notices him looking at photos of naked girls. The drama unfolds with tripled force. The wife refuses her husband sex. They do not talk. But only argue... During another scandal, she threatens divorce. And he... suddenly agrees. He is already tired of living on a powder keg. A family on the verge of divorce... Being at this critical point, the husband writes to his sexologist. And the sexologist replies the following... All men are visual! This is even reflected in the folk wisdom "a man loves with his eyes." Remember? By the way, all women know this intuitively. They go to cosmetologists, hairdressers, makeup artists, stylists, to a solarium, for manicures and pedicures. Who are they doing this for? For themselves, their beloved? No way! Take and conduct an experiment. Invite several girls to visit. The first time - to a bachelorette party. The second time - to a mixed company. To a bachelorette party, the girlfriends will come without makeup, with ponytails and almost in home clothes. And to a mixed company... in heels, with curls and in full dress. I checked - this is exactly how it happens! Men are visual people, and they need to look at a beautiful naked female body with individual frequency. By the way, it can be not only porn. It can be erotic photos in men's magazines, and naked women in works of art, and erotic photos on the Internet or clips - anywhere where there are naked beautiful women. Why is a wife not enough for a man to fulfill his need? Firstly, it is no secret that an ordinary woman (wife) is different from a photo model (porn model), whose whole life and the main part of financial resources are laid out on the altar of her appearance. Secondly, the age of the wife does its job. And the "girls from the picture" have eternal youth & eternal beauty. Thirdly, in the confrontation between reality and professional artistic means, the latter most often win. And let the famous photo model be covered in pimples, a Photoshop master will give her amazing skin - and here she is, a beauty, which a man loves to secretly look at. It turns out that a man, seeing all the shortcomings of his wife's appearance in comparison with models from the cover, seeing traces of age, still loves his wife, but sometimes satisfies his need to contemplate an eternally young, eternally beautiful and eternally sexy female body not somewhere on the side, having a mistress, but only with the help of photographs or adult films. Therefore, the sooner the wife understands that a man's "love" for naked beauties is a normal situation, that these girls are just models for him, that he does not cheat with them, and they do not threaten family happiness and do not compete - the sooner peace will return to your couple and your family relationships))

Psychologists have found out how many years it takes to forget an ex-partner You can break up with a loved one in an instant, but you won’t be able to get them out of your head for a long time — especially if we’re talking about a serious relationship. To get over a breakup, someone needs a year, someone two or more, but the memory of ex-partners can still cause a lot of worries in a person even years later... According to the latest research, to finally “let go” of a partner, a person needs only... eight years! Another interesting conclusion that scientists came to during the study: new relationships do not affect the rate at which emotional connections fade - new and old relationships exist in our heads in parallel, and one does not displace the other... By the way, gender also does not affect experiences: men and women demonstrated absolutely the same level of experiences and attachment to former partners.

What seems sexy, but in real life looks funny & ridiculous Maybe it's edible underwear, whispering in the ear, too tight jeans or something else... Let's find out) At the end of February this year, a Reddit user with the nickname @Afraid_Class_3874 specially created a similar survey. In it, he invited users to share truthful information about what they find sexy, but in real life it looked... absurd and even funny. Redditors did not keep us waiting and in a few days left more than a thousand comments, the best of which you will now learn: It is tempting to whisper something to your partner. But you can easily choose the wrong "volume", because of which your whisper will turn into an aggressive hiss, like a faulty kettle. Falling asleep in an embrace. It is pleasant for about the first ten minutes, until your hand goes numb. Then you have to clean it up and accidentally wake the girl up. Using any sweets during sex. I remember watching an episode of "Sex Sent Me to the ER" where a couple microwaved a giant gummy bear to use during sex. They thought it would be like candle wax that they could eat later. But in reality, it turned into melted sugar and gelatin. The wife was tied to the bed when her husband poured the hot syrup all over her chest, causing severe third-degree burns. Removing a girl's skinny jeans... Sometimes you have to literally shake her out of them. Same with thigh-high boots. A girl can look hot in thigh-high goth grinders, but taking them off takes a hell of a lot of time. Edible underwear. My ex and I bought a pair of these panties back in the day. Because they are all the same size, they just hang on her. And so we get busy… Five minutes pass: she is bored, and I am still chewing and can’t finish them! In the end, I pick them off and throw them away. Morning kisses right after waking up. In movies, they never talk about nasty morning breath. Sex in the shower. How can you like leaning against cold stone walls with the risk of slipping and breaking your pelvic bones, as well as being tortured by washing with cold water. Slowly taking off your clothes, like in the movies… In real life, you get stuck on the shirt, then you can’t figure out the pants for a long time, and so on. And all your undressing turns into a clown show rather than a sexual act. An outdoor shower in Bali. In my imagination I imagined hot sex with my beloved woman, but in reality I encountered huge spiders, lizards and snakes that endlessly fell, crawled next to our bodies. We both almost had a heart attack. And mosquitoes! I once took off a girl's dress and underwear near a swampy area, and a swarm of mosquitoes immediately attacked her. We both had to run away naked...

The hottest sex fetishes you might not know about They say that sex is gradually "dying"... But surveys show exactly the opposite result. For example, the dating app Bumble conducted a survey among users and found out the most common fetishes. The most common fetish was continuing sex after orgasm. It is followed by having sex outdoors on the balcony. The third most popular among sex lovers is sexual intercourse during video games. Perhaps such a surge in sexual activity during computer games is due to the large amount of 18+ content in the video games themselves. Now the topic of sex is raised in one way or another in such popular games as "Assassin's Creed", GTA and others. Another reason is a surge of hormones, an adrenaline boost, and general excitement during an intense game. Fourth place is waking each other up with oral sex. Some couples even have special agreements - if one falls asleep naked, the other partner can wake him up with oral sex. The fifth and final one is naked training together. No comments here...

Marriage increases the chance of obesity in men by three times But that's not all! The risk of obesity increases in people with each passing year, regardless of whether they are married: by 4% in women and by 6% in men. A real "epidemic" is coming... According to scientists, by 2050, more than half of adults and a third of children worldwide will suffer from excess weight. Darlings, what do you think the problem is?

Flirting that will definitely be remembered Darlings, today I suggest you relax properly and master the art of easy communication and a mesmerizing look. After all, flirting is an easy, relaxed interaction that helps to win not only attention, but also to create a special atmosphere between interlocutors. It's not only smiles and compliments, but also non-verbal signals, self-confidence and the ability to keep the intrigue... Look and body language are your main strength One of the most powerful tools of flirting is eye contact. A short but confident look can say much more than words... Try holding the gaze a little longer than usual, add a slight smile - and you will notice how the interlocutor responds to your signal. Gestures are also important: a slight tilt of the head, open poses, gentle touches will create an atmosphere of ease. Voice and intonation – sound captivating How you speak is no less important than what you say. A calm, soft voice with slight pauses makes the conversation more intimate and inviting. Try playing with intonation, adding mystery and lightness. It is no secret that men, like women, intuitively respond to a pleasant voice – it makes communication deeper and more interesting. Wordplay and sense of humor Flirting is also a word game. Light jokes, subtle hints, a little playfulness in conversation make your communication lively and exciting. The main thing is not to go overboard and feel the boundaries of the interlocutor. Flirting is fun for two, so it is important to be able to maintain a balance between humor and sincerity. Confidence is your main ally The main secret of successful flirting is inner confidence. When you feel comfortable, your energy is transmitted to others, and they are drawn to you. Don't be afraid to take the initiative, be open and friendly. Relax, enjoy the conversation, and then flirting will become a natural part of your interactions with people. Having mastered these simple techniques, you will be able to flirt easily and naturally, creating an atmosphere of attraction and sympathy around you.

What her pussy wants to tell you My dears, who have been reading posts on my channel for a long time, are very familiar with the anatomy of the female body... To the great regret of many of you, women's lower lips cannot speak so that you can receive feedback in time, as they say, "from the first person". Imagine a situation, and if they could... In that case, a woman's vagina would tell you a lot of interesting things. Therefore, today I present to your attention special thoughts that her pussy wants to tell you personally:

I'm not ready!

It's no secret that men do not need time to prepare for sex, but this trick won't work with women. Why? Because the female body always requires foreplay... Therefore, dears, do not forget to devote time to warming up and sexual games. Where would we be without them...

Are we in a hurry?

Men have a faster rhythm in sex, while women have a slower one... Therefore, try to match your rhythms to move forward. For example, do two medium penetrations and one deep, faster and rougher one.

My turn first!

Many women do not reach orgasm during vaginal sex... Therefore, take turns satisfying each other. First, bring the girl to orgasm with your fingers and tongue, and then... wait for your reward.

And where is the condom?

If you are not in a long-term relationship and do not plan to conceive a child, then the responsibility for contraception lies entirely with the man. Sometimes sex is postponed or cancelled only because the man forgets to take the necessary contraception with him.

Hmm, is that all?

Admit it, men are not always at their best in bed... Often they generally slack off during foreplay and do not pay enough attention to the woman during intercourse. As a result, your woman feels unsatisfied. Therefore, if you screw up in the first round, you always have a chance to properly rehabilitate yourself in the second - never forget about it!

I wish you a very happy Women’s Day!  Be loved and happy today and forever... Best wishes for your special day! Live, Laugh and Love.

One day the gods decided to have fun with people “Let’s take something from them?” suggested one of them. “Let’s take their happiness from them. And hide it. Let them search for it and find it, if they can,” rubbed his hands together contentedly. “That’s a great idea. Where should we hide it?” scratched the back of his head the third god. “I suggest hiding it at the bottom of the sea.” “No, people are inquisitive and resourceful. They will definitely find a way to get to the bottom of the deepest sea,” shook his head one of the gods. “Right. Then at the top of the highest mountain!” “No. Their brains work just fine. Someone will definitely find a way to get to the top. And if one finds happiness, then the rest will get there too.” “Okay then. There are other planets,” said one of the gods, “they definitely won’t get there.” - I assure you, they will make their way to the planets sooner or later, - another god shook his head. - Here's what we'll do, - the oldest and wisest god joined the conversation, - we'll hide happiness inside people. They'll be so frantically busy looking for it somewhere outside that it won't occur to them to find it inside themselves 🍬

New types of orgasm: perineal orgasm Oh, this is a top-notch maneuver... Therefore, my dears, if your girlfriend has never experienced an orgasm in her life, it is better to start with this one. It is better to hunt for this type of orgasm standing up. Stand facing the girl. It is better, of course, to lean her against the wall. Important! This orgasm requires the active participation of the girl in the process. You can do your usual shallow frictions, but your beloved will not get off so easily... In the upper phase of your movement, she should squeeze the vaginal muscles as much as possible and move her pelvis slightly upward by lightly standing on her toes or simply stretching... And one more thing: it would be good to do such pirouettes without losing contact with each other! At first, you will mostly laugh and say "oh!", but when muscle coordination develops in both of you, the orgasm will come with incredible frequency and bliss. At this point your girlfriend will try to fall... But don't be afraid: there won't be any dents on the floor (just kidding!). After all, at the moment of perineal orgasm all her muscles will instantly relax and her body will become incredibly soft and exciting... Enjoy! Savor every moment!

How many women should a man have Dear ones, there are several different studies on this rather delicate topic, but for some reason their results always disagree with the boastful stories of many men. It's no secret that all men like to brag, especially when the topic of how many girlfriends someone has had comes up. Here, everyone immediately unpacks their heroic adventures: someone says about ten, someone - twenty... But if you put aside all fantasies and look at this question purely statistically, the numbers turn out to be quite modest. In this post, I have collected data from various studies conducted in different countries at different times: Study No. 1 In 2019, Oleg Apolikhin, the chief specialist of the Russian Ministry of Health for reproductive health, claims that, according to statistics, the average number of sexual partners for men is 6-8. Study #2 In 2017, the dating site Illicit Encounters conducted a study in which it was found that the ideal number of sexual partners is 12. This number of relationships makes a man “not afraid of sexual experiments, uninhibited and easy-going.” Study #3 According to a study conducted by the site onlinedoctor.superdrug.com, the average number of partners for men is 6. Although men considered 7-8 to be the ideal number. Study #4 According to the Spanish publication El Mundo, the average number of women for men is 10. Study #5 But according to the Kinsey Institute, this number is 6-8 girls. Study #6 A site dedicated to men's health, Manual.co, processed data from 35 countries and found that the global average is 9 partners. As you can see, it doesn't really matter how many girls you've had in your medical history, because there is no single number of sexual partners that would be fair for everyone. The most important thing, my dears, is to take care of your sexual health!

Seconds count: what is the minimum duration of sex? Tigers, if you have ever asked yourself the question: "Do our sex sessions end too quickly?" ... this post is definitely for you! Each of us has our own ideas about how long sex should last. For some, 10 minutes is enough for happiness, while others prefer to indulge in lovemaking throughout the night. So, what is the minimum duration of sex, and why? Minimum duration of sex The verdict on this sensitive issue was given by the European Association of Urologists, and it sounds like this: if sex ends in less than one minute, then this may already be a sign of premature ejaculation. That's it, tigers! That is, lovemaking lasting more than 60 seconds is considered a natural and healthy phenomenon in the relationship of partners.

And you know what... Go to a sex shop today and buy a vacuum clitoral stimulator "Womanizer"... But don't tell your girlfriend about it! And then take it out spontaneously in the evening, when you and your beloved start... "hanging out" and press it with a circle to her clitoris 🔞 Your beloved woman will be shocked (I'm telling you like it is) in the good sense of the word... I'll answer)) You will become a God for her today... Later, if you want to, of course, you will learn to create a vacuum there with your lips and... the "Womanizer" you bought will go in the trash) But believe me, starting a foreplay with it is a great idea 😈 This is especially symbolic today - on International Women's Happiness Day) You will thank me later... Especially if the satisfied look & sincere smile of your beloved woman are important to you)

Ideas for romantic gestures on February 14 that will not leave any girl indifferent Make a playlist for her By the way, as many people think, it is not only schoolchildren and students who do this... If you collect 10-20 of her favorite tracks that you (and, of course, she) like the most, every time she listens to them, she will think about you. The playlist does not necessarily have to contain romantic melodies - if she listens to rock, collect heavy hits for her! I recommend giving them on a beautiful flash drive, rather than sending a link on the Internet: it will be more romantic. Forget about your smartphone It is incredible, but it is true: smartphones are one of the most popular reasons for breakups. When talking to a girl, do not take out your phone in order to simultaneously read a message on a social network or even to find out what time it is. In the digital age, the mere fact of having a gadget in your hand means that you are not interested in communicating with a person... Prepare a bath for her For this surprise to work properly, it is not enough to just pour hot water. Try to collect all the fragrances that she likes (a little of her favorite eau de toilette, a couple dozen rose petals, a drop of aromatic oil) in a small jar, and in the evening dissolve it all in the bath. If you do not have enough time for this alchemy, just buy a bath bomb at her favorite cosmetics store. Prepare romantic ideas Sometimes it is difficult to just come up with some unusual romantic trick at once... Therefore, my dears, it is very useful to keep a list of ways to please your beloved girl somewhere. For example, you return home after a hard day at work and absolutely nothing comes to mind... Improvisation is not your friend here, it is much easier to use such a blank. I hope, my dears, that my ideas for romantic gestures will be useful in case you suddenly don't have enough time to come up with something of your own...

Situation: a girl met a guy in an elevator and immediately invited him to her house Usually, girls don't invite you to their house, but if they really want to and there's nowhere else, she can invite a guy to her house in order to do something pleasant with him. The bravest girls, and those who invite a strange man to visit their house, usually do, by bringing you to their home, they will take the initiative, and if not, then read on... So, the girl invited you to visit her, you came to her house and have been sitting for an hour and have not reached a relationship in any way, what to do in this case? Perhaps the girl invited you home to have sex with you, but is too shy to start and take a step first, in this case, without pressure and revelations, just start first. For example, hug her, pull her to you and kiss her gently... And then, if the girl invited you home for this purpose, everything will go by itself. Sometimes a girl invites you to visit just like that, to sit with the guy she likes at her place.

10 Hot Ideas for a Romantic Date in Winter My loves, if it's freezing outside, it doesn't mean you have to lock yourself away under a warm, cozy blanket forever! People fall in love in winter too! And even go on the most romantic dates in their lives... That's why I've put together a few ideas for a "snowy" (or tender?) date: Skating rink The easiest way to spend an unforgettable few hours together. Imagine: winter twilight, the mesmerizing dance of snowflakes - and the two of you, holding hands, rushing along the sparkling ice and chatting... What a miracle! Sleds This is super cool! Even company won't hurt. After all, you can always be together on a sled. And it's so romantic - to quietly cuddle up to your loved one. Don't forget your mittens! Sleds Not to be confused with sleds! If you have a park nearby where you can ride a troika with bells, don't miss this opportunity. Believe me, this old-fashioned entertainment will be remembered for a long time by both of you. Cookies, cocoa and muffins If going outside is still too much for you, I suggest staying in your own kitchen. It's warm, light, smells delicious and there's always something delicious to crunch on. What else does a person need to be happy? Lights Yes, yes! Such a simple, but very romantic entertainment. Just take a walk and look at the shop windows in your city. And from the windows glowing in the dark, your soul becomes so cozy and warm. Skis Dress warmly, take a thermos with tea, a lunch box with sandwiches - and go ahead, to the nearest forest. Just don't forget to give way to the ski slopes! And put some lip balm on your lips so they don't get chapped when kissing at speed. Holiday shopping Even if New Year's is over. There's still February 14th to come! Why don't you look for gifts for each other together for this occasion? Take your loved one by the hand and go to the nearest shopping center. Snowman Making a snowman is not a kindergarten activity at all. It's really fun to do it with your loved one: roll yourself a huge snowball, and you can roll around in the snow together. Oh yeah, don't forget the carrots for the snowman! Photo shoot This option is relevant at all times of the year. But a snow-covered park creates an indescribable feeling of a fairy tale! You can also photograph winter natural phenomena (snowfall, northern lights). And don't forget to take a selfie with them in the background! Cinema This is already a classic! Every film library should have a list of the best winter films. Warm chairs, hot chocolate and a cozy comedy on the screen - this brings people together so much!