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Five smart thoughts about sex Today I had breakfast with colleagues and decided that you, my dears, could also use a reminder of a couple of simple truths about sex & relationships... 🍬Sex does not cure anything And if you decided that your broken heart will be cured by short sex with a casual acquaintance, I have to disappoint you. It will not help! 🍬Sex does not bring people closer Epic fail... This is another big illusion, of which, by the way, there are quite a lot around sex. Many people confuse emotional closeness and sex. That is, roughly speaking, when they want to be loved, they have sex. But in reality, one may have nothing to do with the other at all. And no sex will replace mutual warmth and love. These are completely different things! 🍬Sex is not the best way to test your relationship with your loved one You should have sex only because you want to do it with your loved one. You shouldn't do it just out of curiosity and experimentation! 🍬Sex with your loved one is much better than with a casual partner It's unbelievable, but it's a proven fact! Sex with a regular partner becomes better and better over time... After all, you get to know each other better and will already know exactly how to give each other true pleasure. 🍬Sex is what partners often think about when they talk about love Moreover, many do not even realize the full extent of their own deceit. You won't believe it, but many people sincerely often confuse love and sex. It's all the hormones that are to blame, that's why they attack our subconscious...

The best sex of your life: what it's really like 🍬The kind when you forget about everything in the world Imagine, a recent scientific study has proved that in one case out of ten people in the modern world manage to check their phones during sex. At the same time, the absolute majority of partners at this moment also think about some problems, events of the previous day, trying to imagine their future. No, dear, during perfect sex you just feel arousal and do not think about anything ... Everything else - bullet out of your head. That's it! 🍬You feel emotionally intimate with your other half It turns out that the best sex happens with someone who isn't a complete stranger to us. We've either been in love with him or her for a long time, or we suddenly feel like we're getting serious with him or her right now. And this is true for both women and men ... Family, if you think the best sex you've ever had was with someone you don't know... you're definitely still ahead of the game! 🍬You're taking a risk No, I don't mean unprotected sex (although that may have been the case in some cases). During the best sex, you often violate your own ‘safety principles’ and become more vulnerable not only emotionally but also physically. This fact is what makes your entire sexual experience so poignant and memorable for the rest of your life. It can be sex without a condom, spontaneous sex in unfamiliar territory, some unexpected form of sex.

Who you are without a relationship Here I am hosting relationship content for you and I'm becoming more and more convinced that the most important thing I've learnt over the years is to build relationships. With myself, with the person I love, with my parents, friends, colleagues.... You don't learn this at school or university. But we should! We are taught languages, maths, history, physics, but we are not taught the main thing: how to build relationships with people. And this is the foundation of everything! It is like the foundation of a house: if it is weak, the building will sooner or later collapse .... And then what? If even your home is a "mess" with this? If your wife cannot find a common language with her husband, and her husband with his wife, if your children suffer from lack of attention, if we communicate with our parents once in five years, because everything is not easy there.... But it doesn't have to be like that! The most important thing, dear ones, is to learn how to build relationships. First with yourself, and then... with the person you love, children, parents, colleagues. And if you can create harmony in your family, then you will succeed outside of it too! Find friends, partners, turn casual acquaintances into close and reliable connections. Oh... sometimes we think so much about how to earn money and more, how to achieve our goals, but we forget about the most important thing - who are you without relationships? Even the smartest and most competent person doesn't always succeed. Why? Because real success comes only to those who know how to build connections, who can find a common language, who understands other people. Think about it!

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I realised a long time ago From any relationship that ended, no matter what kind of friendship or love, it is better to come out quietly, not crawl out. Never ask to go back, or call, begging someone to come back. It will hurt anyway... But it'll hurt and stop, and you'll keep your self-respect. It's silly to resent people who left you - it's like resenting random, albeit very cool travelling companions who left your carriage at their station. But your train is travelling on and there is no possibility to press the stop-cock..... And thank God! And that's what you'll find out only when you reach the final destination with those who are actually travelling with you.

How to diversify sex? Try Saturday night food games Even sex can get boring if it's monotonous, so here's a new way to spice up your sex games: engage your taste buds. Ripe raspberries 😑 + your favourite chocolate 🍫 = the perfect combination Mmmm.... Sharing an awesome recipe with you) You only need two ingredients: large ripe raspberries, and white & milk chocolate. For the cooking process, see the video above. Now you know exactly how to combine pleasant with useful & tasty)

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Friday .. It's time to remember that your women are not only successful businesswomen. But also sexy kitties, which have a lot of passion ... 💋 For example, I only wear sexy lingerie all day on Friday, and in the evening I like to get a massage with a continuation.… I'm leaving you a photo for inspiration! Relax!

What to do if your penis does not erect on time Erection is great, but depending on life situations, it is not always appropriate... Dear family, today I will tell you what to do if your "soldier" stands up at the wrong time. By erection we understand the enlargement and thickening of the penis due to the rush of blood. But few people know that there are as many as 3 types of erection: Reflexive - reaction to touch Psychogenic - reaction in response to fantasies, associations, as well as visual & olfactory stimuli. Involuntary - a spontaneous, unexplained reaction of the body. It is with the last type, involuntary erection, that we will "fight". 9 ways to get a boner Remember: it's much easier to relieve tension than it is to get it..... If you have a hard-on, use one of the following tips: Get some exercise A couple or three regular exercises will get the blood pumping from your penis to another area of your body. Cool down Exposing the penile area to cold will help take away an erection. Go to the toilet Your bladder can put pressure on your nerve endings, triggering an erection. Masturbate Explaining this point I suppose is unnecessary. Distract yourself Think about something gross or concentrate on a difficult task. Squeeze your penis Pain is the best remedy for involuntary erections, unless you're a masochist of course. Change your position At times, boner is caused by staying in the same position for a long time. Meditate Close your eyes and take a few deep breaths.

Reasons not to deny yourself champagne Good for the brain. It contains polyphenol, a powerful natural antioxidant that improves memory and spatial reasoning. Good for the heart. Grape antioxidants have a great effect on blood vessels, lowering bad cholesterol and boosting blood flow. It's harder to get obscenely drunk. The aesthetics and bubbles force you to drink more slowly than other alcoholic drinks. Increases libido. This effect is present in all alcoholic drinks, but champagne allows you to feel a pleasant excitement, while not knocking you off your feet. Moreover, champagne relaxes smooth muscles, increasing the production of nitric oxide in the tissues. By the way, the same effect is the basis for the action of Viagra. Chin-chin 🥂

Top 5 best cunnilingus techniques So, gentlemen, as promised - top techniques for cunnilingus, which are worth trying) Remember or immediately save. "Letter" - draw letters on your clitoris with your tongue. You can start with the alphabet or her name. Funny? Maybe. Does it work? It works! Change the rhythm and direction and the sensitivity will increase. "Swing" - slow, smooth tongue movements up and down the clitoris. The main thing - do not rush, play with the rhythm. Gently at first, then a little faster. Make it feel like a wave. "Warm and cold" - take something cold (a piece of ice, a drink) and cool your mouth before cunnilingus. The contrast in temperature will send goosebumps all over your body. Just don't overdo it! "Hickey" - gently grab the clitoris with your lips and gently suck on it. Add tongue movements and you'll get a combined effect. "Eights" - swipe your tongue across the clitoris to make a figure eight. This varies the pressure and angles of exposure, increasing the sensation. In general, remember that sensitivity is what matters. Watch for reactions, change the rhythm, try new things. The best thing you can do is to be attentive and ready to experiment. And then, gentlemen, you won't need any techniques. She'll love it just the way it is... But that's not all, my vip gentlemen and I have been practising all the subtleties and nuances of this activity in my private club for a long time now, which I will tell you about soon.

A new trend in social media is "No-launch" This is when a couple does not publish joint photos and does not advertise their relationship on social networks. Some partners do this out of a desire to keep the relationship private and avoid other people's opinions, others - out of respect for the loved one who does not want publicity, constantly "flashing" on social networks. The most fashionable couple right now is Kylie Jenner & Timati Shalame, who support this trend. In public together they occasionally appear, but they don't have any photos on social networks of each other. Psychologists believe that not publishing their relationship on social media is a healthy practice when the relationship is stable and does not require unnecessary publicity. Even though it's quite involving content, I definitely like the trend. There's a reason they say... "happiness loves silence"

What the average sex looks like in the world 🍬 The average person has sex about 100 times a year 🍬 The average duration of foreplay is 10-12 minutes. 🍬 The average duration of sex is 5 minutes. 🍬 The optimal duration of sex is considered to be 15-20 minutes, along with foreplay 🍬 On average, 75% of men experience orgasm and only 30% of women. 🍬15% of people use sex toys 🍬50% of partners consider the missionary position to be the best, followed by doggie and horsewoman. 🍬The average female orgasm lasts 20 seconds, while the average male orgasm lasts just 5 seconds 🍬 Men have an average of 7-10 sexual partners, while girls have 3-5. 🍬 The average penis size is 12cm, as is its girth 🍬60% of women sometimes fake an orgasm, and only 15% of men do it 🍬65% of visitors to adult websites are men, 35% are women 🍬 The most popular place to have sex is the bed, followed by the car 🍬1 in 7 men have had sex with a woman of easy behaviour 🍬 80% of men and 70% of women masturbate occasionally 🍬60% of couples have sex outdoors or in nature 🍬Half of partners are ready for sex on the first date.... Found some surprising facts?

Well, hello, 2025 The smell of tangerines and spruce branches is in the air, at home there is a pleasant pastime with your favourite New Year's movies in the circle of family and friends, champagne bubbles are fizzing in the glasses, favourite dishes are on the tables... This year we will celebrate the 4-year anniversary of this channel together with you, and I feel especially warm at the fact that during these years I was able to unite several generations on the channel. Someone started reading the channel as a teenager, and now they are already thinking about the correct sexual education of their children. Let this small family tradition on the channel continue, and I, in turn, will also continue to support you not only theoretically, but also practically. Be loved & happy, keep making your wildest wishes and generously give love to your soul mates - sincerity is always appreciated)

A "tea bag" for breakfast Tigers, have you heard of the "tea bag" technique? Nah, I don't mean that morning Dilmah bag that's brewed... The teabag technique is the gentle oral caressing of a man's testicles. But before embarking on the "tea ceremony", it is important to prepare properly. How to properly brew a "tea bag": Take a joint shower, further the man needs to trim the hair in the intimate zone - it is normal and practical. Set up for intimacy. Everything should be perfect: clean bed, cozy environment, dimmed light, perhaps candles. Move on to the action: Step 1: Start by slowly kissing the testicular area so your partner gets used to the sensations. Step 2: Open your mouth wide and gently bite one of the testicles with your lips. Take your time, enjoy the moment - let the man enjoy the moment with you. Step 3: Swipe your tongue - up, down, then in a circular motion. This will make the guy literally freeze with pleasure. Try sucking them lightly - just very, very gently...... If you want variety, try adding edible lube - it will not only add flavor, but also make the process easier. When finished, don't forget to ask your partner what he liked, and what could be improved... Tigers, this unusual technique will strengthen your relationship and make holiday oral sex unforgettable. What you might need for the "tea bag": Massage oil Edible lubricants Flavored condoms

In the coming new year 2025, don't forget about the most important person - yourself Retreat at least for a moment from the hustle and bustle of everyday life and just enjoy the silence & tranquility ... Relax at last) Only by making ourselves better we change and improve the space around us. ⠀ The universe itself picks up a person who is actively working on himself - in deeds, not in words - and carries him to his goal, throwing his best gifts along the way: people, love, money, fortunate coincidences, opportunities, offers.... ⠀ And those of you who have been with me for a long time - know it like no one else. And may all your wishes come true! With sincere love and tender care for you, sexologist Daria

So many people to go to bed with, How few you want to wake up with And turn around in the morning And wave and smile, And wait all day long to hear from them... There are so many people you can just live with, To drink coffee in the morning, to talk and argue with... With whom you can go on vacation to the sea, And, as it should be, for better or for worse. To be close to... But not to love....

#subscriberquestion Why do you think all men prefer a shorter girl as a partner? Tiger, you need to understand the logic... The smaller a girl's hand, the bigger a man's dick seems to be 🍌 That's the whole secret...

How to maximize surprise a girl on New Year's Eve Maximizing surprise is something that occurs rarely or extremely rarely... I've sketched out a list with meaning below: 🍬 learn and demonstrate a few creative tricks on your own 🍬 give an expensive item.... something she's been dreaming of for a long time, by the way, it can be a car, the only thing is that it's important to guess the color of the body, otherwise the gift won't be perceived as successful. 🍬 "officially" give up your bad habit and give your favorite on this account "official document", it can be framed. 🍬 cook something out of a number of food from a number of rare as possible, most importantly, by yourself. I suggest videotaping the cooking process for your future family archive. 🍬 prepare and design your joint photo album or video and watch it together on New Year's Eve. 🍬 change your image, such as a haircut or tint & color your hair 🍬 wear a sophisticated tuxedo for New Year's Eve (you can rent one). 🍬 take your girlfriend for a ride on a Finnish sleigh after congratulating the president. By the way, you can also ride in a tuxedo. 🍬 give the girl a personalized coffee maker with a text like, "Good morning, (name)!" You can make the text yourself with spray paint, using a stencil or engraving. Gadgets, jewelry, perfumes - banal, predictable and believe me, will definitely not cause maximum surprise of your girlfriend....

About mercantilism How to realize that your girlfriend is primarily interested in your wallet? If on the first date she asks to pick you up by cab or car, asks about your job and income. And in the restaurant orders expensive dishes, purposely goes beyond the average check - congratulations, you have a date with a check on the material. Mercantile girls in this way are trying to find out your financial wealth to understand whether you are suitable for her or not or how much money can be taken from you. Such are interested only in your wallet ... This kind of women is not very often, but it happens.... Advice: strangers in principle should not in detail at the first meeting to tell what you earn and how much. And where to take her may also depend on her mood - today it may be a good restaurant, and tomorrow a modest coffee shop. I know that you would not want a girl to make an impression of you immediately on the car, the availability of housing, the prestige of the neighborhood and the bank account. If you like to let dust in the eyes, so you can just pick up a purse seeker and her goal is to pull money from you, gifts, nails, handbags, blouses. She's all about the money and you're the last thing she's interested in. If you realize that she is like that, do not waste your time!